hello, mbe76... i am following your situation with deep interest and cannot keep my comments to myself any longer... my heart is breaking for you... why are you on the couch? she should be on the couch... as i have been reading your thread, i find myself boiling over... i am mostly upset with you... it has to be no coincident that so many nice guys just like you end up here...
you are not showing strength by saying you won't be disrespected but then are disrespected again and again... when you left the house, you should have stayed out longer... going away for a few hours is not the same as moving out--which i hope you do not do, btw... you should have given her the duvet and let her sleep on the couch... better yet, tell her to pack her things and go live with her parents--or anywhere else... and frankly, the two of them--your WW and OM--are making a mockery of the Church... that's all i have for now...
