Hi Sotto, I've been reading along and as usual you always seem to handle things with such class and style. I think the moderators should put your posts on the reading / homework list.
You give great advice but also accept advice which we should all learn from.
On this latest chapter in your life , I'm going to give my pennies worth as an 'experianced' dater. This guy may be very genuine or he may not. I would give him a chance but have your critia and do not waiver. While I know how strong you are and able to see things for what they are , emotions can come in to play and the lines get blurred, all well and good down the line when you get to know the ' real ' him.
In my own experiance it took a good while to know someone. Things can appear very rosy for a few months but then cracks can show and it's this i would caution you about. You are the prize here and the man you choose is going to be a very lucky man so he should be very appreciative of that.
Enjoy this chapter and keep us up to date on the latest gossip.
