New LBS - need advice, part deux

[apothem]

Journaling:

I'm meeting her tonight at our cell phone provider's store so we can switch her onto her own plan. She's also paying me for last month's and this month's phone bill, car insurance, and health insurance.

In the back of my head I want to confront her so badly, but I know there's no point, it won't accomplish anything. I almost don't want to see her because of the betrayal I feel. I know I can forgive her in the future for the betrayal if she was remorseful, etc., but at the same time as each day passes I think of more and more things about her that just aren't good qualities.

Her lack of maturity, perspective, ability to deal with her own issues/problems, among other things irk me. However, if she can prove that she has grown as a person and is willing to address those things I may reconsider. This is due to the chemistry we had, the things we shared, and my overall happiness - I was genuinely happy when we were together (aside from some of my behaviors due to my codependency).

I know right now none of this matters because if/when reconciliation happens it won't be for quite a while. A lot can happen in that time frame. I could meet someone or realize my feelings for my wife have dwindled because I'm able to rationally assess our relationship now that I don't have an investment in it.