Quick update - actually my concerns were really well received. re-met guy came back to me and said he completely understood how I must hearing that.

He had already mentioned to one friend that he likes me and we have started seeing eachother. He subsequently mentioned it to the other. He told me that he hoped we would still have the opportunity of getting to know each other, even if I want to do so cautiously, and assured me that he is a well-intentioned guy.

So, we'll see and I am cautious. Still making plenty of time to see friends and do other things.
Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus