Oh, yes I agree with Job - you don't need this right now. I would second the 'do nothing' approach. And if she does ask you, reply - oh my goodness I'm behind on emails just now. So sorry not to have come back to you..

Tell yourself - it is okay for me to say no if this doesn't work for me.

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus