Former WH, now LBS Please Help, close to Give Up

[betheoa]

OK I calmed down a bit, befoure come home.
So I will play as if nothing known.
I will wait until something happened and I found out without snooping or/and something that cannot be slipped out (like she date OM2).
For now I will play her game to pleasant interaction without any pursuing from my part.

Please advice what to do, when she start talk about our future ....like how/when to buy new flat or other things, that keep me committee to the marriage. Should I set her ww behavior as something she must stop, or I already told this to her, so there is not need to repeat (like not start R or Monday talks).

Writing here is helping me to not act emotionally.

Thanks to all supporting me.