I have a buddy, that I play basketball with, that had the same thing happen to him. Him and his W with their two girls lived in a modest home and they decided to buy their dream home while they were having problems. He told me they did because they thought it would change things as well. They enjoyed 1 summer of it and had to sell it because nothing changed. They are now D'd and neither one of them could afford to keep it. He said they took a financial beating.
