sandi2, I will be going back through your post later today. Sorry, just been very busy and haven't had time to get alone time to respond in full.

However, I do have an update. So before my W went to WW mode, she was really into finding us a new house. In fact, her exasperation at her, my daughter and I not being able to agree on houses is what I think partially sent her into WW mode. It was right after she quit spending most of her time looking at houses, and moved on to the singing app, that I started noticing the changes in her.

Anyway, I may have mentioned that I recently got rated top performer at work, and simultaneously got promoted. This resulted in extra bonus money and two big raises back-to-back. I mentioned to my wife that we could now afford some of the houses that were in our "too expensive" category.

The result is that she started looking for houses again. IN fact, the 3 of us went to two open houses yesterday. Obviously I am trying to stay even keeled related to this. And I will be glad to take feedback on what you think this might mean.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018