What a surprise to come here today and see that you have posted.
Your h will reconcile with everyone before he will reconcile with you. Remember, you were the first to be "tossed aside", thus you will be the last person he will reconnect with. Sounds like he is slowly returning little by little. Keep doing what you are doing. Drop those friendship crumbs and allow him to gobble them up slowly, but surely.
I'm so glad you are enjoying life more and more. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.