Thanks, I have read first post and homework, lots of helpful threads.
What I forgot to mention in first post in this thread is that all these toys I found were in a same small bag that my W has had with her recently. Nothing in packages but opened and seems like also used. Guess it´s quite uncommon to use these kind of equipements alone, huoh...
I feel quite numb, and as mentioned in last post, my W never seemed interested in these kind of activities in marriage, she just wanted to feel emotionally connected when intimate in marriage.