Originally Posted By: Vanilla
So how will you enforce that boundary?

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Exactly. It’s one thing to say “I’m not going to tolerate being disrespected.”

But I you can’t expect HER action to change based on what you say. So if you won’t tooerate it, what is our recourse? For example, you can then say “this conversation is done. We can resume later when you are being respectful.” And hen just walk away.

But you can’t say “I won’t be disrespected and then just stand there as she disrespects you.