I know H is interested in X property near work (20min away) but then he started talking about another property that a co-worker told him about but it 25min away so he feels like he is still driving.
He talked a little about it and I actually tried to be open minded but the words "is this a place to stay during the week or something more permanent"?
He just said "I don't know" in a very confused tone. Then he rambled with all the weekends he works now... obviously he didn't finish but it was left open.
I regret asking that question. H is still clearly trying to figure that out and my bringing it out tin the open was probably putting pressure on him.