Hey Steve,
I struggled with how to percieve kisses and ILY's (hence the name of my thread). I finally realized it was all just a game to keep me attached so she could stay in control of the situation. Don't get me wrong, I miss those things a lot, but they don't mean what they used to. Lately I've realized that's exactly what this is to her. A game. Throwing me enough crumbs to keep me on my knees picking them up. Detaching is hard...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...