Don't feel that strong, it seems everything is coming unraveled over here, i'm just trying to keep it from totally disintegrating. I think i just have a cussed stubborness .
Back when i thought it was hormone/breast feeding withdrawal driven (with underlying factor of course), i had been told both on here and by my MC/IC that if they were to come back, it would be about 2 years. At the time, i stupidly thought my case was unique with the breast feeding issue and thought i'd give it until the breast feeding was no longer a factor (basically now). Now that "now" is now, i am of the mindset of still waiting especially now that it seems to be shaping up that she had an EA at best which is turning into a dating after the D which would put it around the same timeframes i have been told. Besides, i still have a lot of work to do on myself as well as cleaning house (so to speak ) before i am ready to totally commit to abandoning hope.
As for the DivorceCare, there are people in there who are only considering, but those are typically the ones that annoyed me I went to a meetup divorce support group that seemed to be more of a bunch of women who were comparing notes so that they all got what they "deserved". One told me i looked like Mel Gibson (I don't think so BTW) though, so that ego boost was the only positive from that experience.
Thanks for posting, i appreciate the input.
Me 51, Wife 44; Married 4; Together 10; HSD20, XWSD13, XWSS14, XWSS17 Kids Together D4, D1.52 W Moves Out: 03/16/17 W Files : 03/17/17 D Final: 10/23/17
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