WW, A ended, but struggling to reconnect (My 11th)

[hoosjim]

Also, in terms of fun stuff-- V-Day date went well. Nice cozy restaurant. Turned out she knew the chef(!) who was a patient at the clinic she works at, so that was cool. I got chauffeured luxury SUV to take us there, with champagne (stretch limo was a little over the top for the casual place we were going, so gonna keep that one in my pocket for a five-star dinner at some point) and she was plenty surprised... kept doing double takes at each new surprise, the car, the champagne. We snugged a bit in bed that night.

I was working out on Friday night in basement and she came down, dressed an made up to KILL... and said "why aren't you ready, we're going to miss all the music?" So, of course I went upstairs and showered quickly and came along. A fun, but somewhat typical night out for us... She still wont' dance with me, not sure what's up with that. She said the one time a few weeks ago "If you're not gonna ask me to dance, im just gonna go out there myself" but the three times I have asked since she has just said "no" or, "no, not now".

This evening she was going to get her passport, so I had to tell her where we were going in May for her birthday (Cancun). She has kept asking, so she is interested, but she was a bit downcast "I only have two and a half months to get ready, I'll never be able to wear my cute spring/summer clothes by then".

That's basically everything for now. This the first "early Friday" for her that she hasn't gone out but just came home.

Fire away! (Am I "piecing" yet? Seems like maybe, but still unsure.)