Fighting my way out of the dark - Part 8

[EastTN]

H,

Going to quibble about one thing: the WAS decides if they want to save the M but SO DOES THE LBS. Look at the stories here. Storm chaser, Blu, TxHubby are good examples. They ended up in piecing and all of them either decided to walk away themselves or seriously considered it at some point.

Don’t give all of this power to your ex. Yes, she ultimately decided not to try t save the M and that’s that... but if she HAD decided to it would have taken tremendous work by BOTH of you to do it. And you’d probably have gotten tired of it yourself at some point and seriously questioned whether or not you wanted it.

Keep that thought in mind: YOU have a say in this. Even after divorce it’s not over for you until YOU say it is.