So I found some sordid emails on my sons computer between W and her OM. He describes her as a 'strumpet' and she describes him as a 'horny f*****'. Lovely for my son to discover. I kind of blew up and sent her a message;
"I don't know, or care who (OM - used his name) is, apart from him being a horny f***** and you're a strumpet) but I suggest you desist in sending him messages from (s's) laptop. Apart from being disrespectful to me (we're still married although probably not for much longer) it's disrespectful to use his laptop for your sordid behaviour. No need to reply. I am nobody's Plan B. If you'd like to collect the rest of your stuff in the next week that's good, or I can pas it to charity. It's very sad but I hope he's worth it"
The reply from W was as follows;
(littered with spelling mistakes) "I had to use the tablet as my phone wasn't working. As you know (S) can't read. Don't be nosey. I will get mine and SD's stuff when I get the kids. We have been separated for nearly 2 years (sic) you can't seriously be bothered. it's none of your business, the fact that all of my emails come on the tablet is private, don't look"
Couldn't resist a text back;
"We've been separated for three. It's my business if you're moving him in as it affects my children. As I say I hope it's all worth it for you. If you'd like to see a lawyer and make it permanent, I'm happy to oblige"
Followed back with;
"Ahhhhh am moving nobody in. As and when I do you will be informed".
Couldn't resist;
"Crack on #notwaitinglong".
Reply came back;
"LOL" (not sure what she's laughing at)
Final text from me;
"I just thought I'd join in the teenager style language that you love to use. Why not bring him round for a chat. Hope he's a quick learner for being a step dad"
OK, probably overdid it with the convo. Going radio silence now except for kids. Weirdly relieved to have got it off my chest. Basically she's been feeding me crumbs and I've been pecking them up. She's still cake eating and in replay, so, that's not for me. I obviously don't want a divorce, but I can't let this continue.
So, overplayed my hand here or what? Honesty would be good fellow buddies.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
