Yes... our marriage is not in trouble solely based on deer trophy, but it's just one more stick to add to the fire of unhappiness.
I'm sure my story isn't much differeny from many. Once a spouse starts to question their marriage they start collecting all of their grievance and making a list. Sometimes even taking prior positives and twisting them.
It all started with physical neglect and when I started to pull away from him rather than asking what's going on with me he internalized it as me saying he wasn't good enough, he was inadequate and that bred self doubt and loathing and eventually why was he driving 120 miles a day to be with someone who he thought didn't love him
