Steve85, short answer... TOO LONG. I am just coming up on a year from BD in 2 weeks. I really thought that we would have been trying to work on our R by now. I realize now how foolish that train of thought was. While I am not fully in the "my life will be so much better" thinking yet, I know that this is the only way for my life to improve. This past year has sucked the life out of me and has wounded me to my soul. All the lies and deception and the constant feeling like you have been discarded like a piece of trash. I will not do this anymore. I will not allow someone to make me feel like this. You will get there. Hopefully with less stumbling than I have.
