Wow I read your update. You are a strong man. And I feel for you brother. I know it is difficult.
I signed up for a divorce care message list. They send a daily email. I will consider doing the meetings if my wife moves forward with leaving.
I had done a KIK support group for a little while (before finding this forum). I had the same problem with it that you do with divorce care. There was one women in the group that sure came across as a WW. Her marriage was awful for the many years (over 20) she had been married. NEVER had a single positive thing to say about her ex. But the kicker? She was dating a 29 year-old (she is 44) and went on and on about how great the sex is. -vomit- I left the group. Ironically, she readded me (she is a group admin) and told me I couldn't leave. So I left the group again and uninstalled KIK. I hate social media anyway.
Thanks for continuing to post. I think your story can help us. And I don't necessarily agree that you should ever give up hope of reconciliation. I read stories all the time of WASs coming to their senses even years later and wanting to reconcile. Keep your hope alive.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
