Ugh... that went badly. Came home made H dinner. He got up and said... your not eating? I said no and before I could finish he said I'm not eating either... I won't have you holding this over my head.
In the past when we had arguments I would say but I do this and that for you... :-(
It blew up but I tried validating... I know it must be frustrating when I've made you feel that way in the past. If wasn't my intention and certainly not tonight. I enjoy man I g you dinner so you can eat before you head to work. H says so that makes up for all the years before? I said no. I cannot change past I can only do things different here on out. Then our favorite phrase comes up... H says past behavior is best predictor of future behavior.
He asked where I was going. I replied coffee shop downtown... he belts out you don't even drink coffee.
I said I have some reading to do and trying to get a hold of X. Trying lead on extra work. H says why another job? I saw because he is so stressed about money right now. H says he doesn't have the money to do what he needs.... I say... money to leave me? H says nothing but that me getting a second job is stupid.
I just got an F in DB.
At one point when I was leaving H said fine... no one in this house likes each other. I said I like you. He said my actions don't show it.
How don't my actions show it? He wouldn't be specific.
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