So I need advice. Since there is no chance of reconciliation with STBXH, as he has made his point over and over again. I have come to terms, like I said before, with this and have made my peace. Now I want to go in and get everything legal. But he's dragging his feet. Telling me that he's in no rush to get a lawyer etc. he doesn't have time to look into a lawyer. He's too busy. Etc etc. due to financial constraints with me I have not retained a lawyer. I actually want to do collaborative law so we are both represented but we work together out of court. So I told him this and told him to find one for us. But he is refusing. I want him to pay for it. So that is why I am pushing for him to get one. Not too mention he is the one that wants this anyways. So my question is. Do I just bite the bullet and get my own lawyer and just push for it? I mean I would love for this to mean that he doesn't really want this divorce to go thru. But he is adamant that's it's over. So I accept that. And if it is then I just want it dealt with.
