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[joejoe1]

G,

What I mean with greive, is get that M out of your system, it's dead. You can't go back to that damage. You and your H have to move into a new season in you'll life and that means a new M. But he has to be willing to go into that new M with you. In order for you to detach to the best of your ability, you have to let go of the thought of saving that old M. The moment you let go of trying to save the old M and work to heal yourself, your H might start to turn his heart back towards you and start working with you to build a new a better M and R.

We as LBS try our hardest to hold onto something that has died, because the pain of letting go is to great. But the freeing yourself comes from allowing that old M and all the goods and bads of that M to stay in your past, and us as LBS stop dragging all the weight and pain behind us trying to revive it.

When you truly let go you will start to feel the difference inside of you. You will feel grace and you will start to accept that you have to move on. I listen to TD Jakes all the time and something he says, we are put in messes all the time in life, but we have to come out of that mess, and to get to the progress we have to go thru the process. Grieving is part of the process.

I sat in my car and cried on a bunch of occasions. I yelled and scream and cursed out everything. Get it out and let it go.

Hardwork ahead

Onward and forward