Also, MC asked me a lot in IC about "what i would be willing to live with" in terms of W's continued relationship with bff... and what I would be willing to "not know" about the A and still be willing to reconcile.
I'm a little dumbfounded by that question, and I am not able to figure out why she would ask you.
I can see if she talked to you about how much you want to know, walked through how once you know you can't un-know, etc., and how knowing may affect you. But I don't think you only wanting to know "this much" should be a condition of reconciliation. I also don't think that you should not ask something that you want to know, simply because you didn't outline it in your agreement up front.
Everything else seemed positive, but that one statement makes me wondering if your W is holding back from reconciliation because she isn't ready to come clean (maybe the same reason for no confession yet). Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, if she's not ready then she's not ready, but it's still positive if she is working towards getting to that point.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
