Saying ILY...

[mtb1981]

So W just called and told me she was by the house to take a shower and do laundry. I asked how she got in and she said she found a key in her purse (I assume she knew she had it the whole time). I told her to leave the key there, and she said she wouldn't. I told her I would come by her work and get the key. She said she would not give me "her" key. She got really worked up and kept saying I was being an A-hole. I told her I wasn't, that I just wanted my key. Then went into every manipulative play she could. Bringing up the past, threatening to not want to go to MC after she moved, calling me manipulative and controlling, accusing me of playing games, saying all I want to do is make her feel like [censored], etc. I finally just told her to stop. I told her she needed to get help. She's out of control. That I cared about her, and that's the reason I'm telling her. Of course, she says I'm just saying that to make her feel crazy and trying to make her feel like [censored]. There have been several people in the past weeks, including her friends, that have told me they have seen through her bs, and that she needs help too. I told her this and all she wanted was names of the people. I told her the names weren't important. What was important was her realizing that she needed help. All I got in return was F you, I hate you, we're done for good, etc. Honestly, I don't care anymore. She has become a person that I do not know nor want to be with anymore. I told her she could give me the key and come get her stuff sometime while I was there, or if she chooses to not give me the key, I would have her stuff packed for her. She says she has nowhere to keep it. I told her that was not my problem. Then she told me to not touch any of her f@cking stuff, and if I did she would be gone for good, call the cops, etc.