As far as taking her phone, I was told that in some states that can be considered abuse? Is that true? Apparently it can be considered abuse if you cut off her contact with the outside world.

I guess I would consult a divorce attorney before doing that. I've considered doing it myself. My wife would go absolutely nuts if I took her phone away.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018