Originally Posted By: Steve85

Ok, I will keep that in mind. I am way to compulsive for this stuff. frown


The other trick, is to be inside of your own head so much, that you aren't paying attention to what you are, or aren't getting from her..

Dig deeper into Steve, and find out why you react to different situations the way that you do.

Find out why you need to be in control..

Find out when, in the marriage that is dead now, that you turned into the Father figure...

Find out why and in what situations that you need to be the "fixer"

find out who the heck Steve really is at his core.

And I know you gave me the "Family Fued" answers already, however I highly doubt that you are only as deep as a kiddie pool..



It's hard, yet not impossible to accomplish.

Stop asking her questions that you do not want the answers to...

Stop asking her questions that you already know the answers to...

If you truly believe the DB mantra of not believing what she says....then why are you asking questions anyway ??

Stop trying to talk your way out of this...

Stop trying to fix her...

Look, she asked for this right ??

Then give it to her...


And when you do ??

Then that will pi$$ her off too...

Remove the buttons that she can push, that make YOU dance...

Because once you recognize that button, and she pushes it, then you dance ???

That is on you buddy...

Nothing that you could possibly talk about, should be "new" information to you...



Soooo...

With that ^^^

Ask yourself if it is worth it to ask questions or to initiate a relationship talk....

K ??

Sit back and enjoy your STFU smoothie on the nice sunny patio that is your head....

And let her dance around her indecision whilst you do....



Any of that make sense ???