I know he is not having an affair. I think he is leaning on friends right now and he has IC.
I used to think it was because he truly did care and it mattered but I'm sure its more "I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you either".
Its frustrating that he asks me 50questions but I cannot ask him anything.
I know he feels trapped and I think he feels that - oh you can go out and do things BUT I have no attachments to this city. All my attachments are an 1hr away so I have nothing to do to socialize here. It like our situation is a little unique and my going out just pours salt in a wound?
