What I could have done differently is NOT started the conversation to begin with. I shouldn't have. And I am bummed that I did now.
Again, my action should have been to not have brought it up. It was dumb, unproductive, needy, temp checking, not detached. Everything it shouldn't have been.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018