Dawn, I am so glad you explained your point of view! We share the exact similar one and approach the situation similarly, actually.
I don't follow a rule, although I really try not to have sex on the first date. But it has happened, and really, they were just hookups and I knew what they were. But I do not have a 3 date rule, or a 3 month rule, although I joked around and said I have a 6 month rule, lol. Let's face it, we are all adults here. I am a 37 year old woman with needs and I can make the decision for myself when the time was right. I don't sleep around. Do I think it's going to happen this weekend? Yeahhhhhhh. I am sleeping over tomorrow night and he did offer for me to take the bed and him the couch.
Maybe it won't happen. Maybe it will! But I can definitely tell this guy isn't looking for a FWB situation. Neither am I. He knows that much too.
