It is early and time will tell. I appreciate his attempt at wooing. He's doing well, and I think that has kind of gone by the wayside in dating. Of course, it is something I don't expect to last. But I think he is the kind of guy who would be thoughtful from time to time with the little things.
Needy? I don't think so. I think he just wants to "get things right". He admits his mistakes in the past and feels he has learned things as time goes on. You know how a DB'er does their 180's? I think that's what he is doing. Again, only time will tell as we get to know each other.
I think Don said something about him thinking I am "the perfect girl" or something to that affect. Weirdly enough, my last most serious R's began that way. They seem to think I am "the woman" (which is a tough standard to live up to by the way, I kind of hate it, because I am not perfect and I have flaws) Neither of the last guys have any complaints of who I was or how I was in an R, actually both told me they loved who I was, yet, when it came to a point where a sacrifice needed to be made, they didn't hesitate to say "nah, I'll just find someone else" The first guy, the sacrifice was small. The second one was big and I get it. But still, come on now, nobody is perfect. ANd I don't want to be some fantasy, I want to be someone's reality. One where they stay.
I really am trying not to overthink it and just go with the flow.
The sex thing. Well. I can't say it's not going to happen soon. Like really soon. Luckily, that never drove anyone away, lol. I think it only affected the dynamic of the plumber and I, but it was going to be the same dynamic whether I waited 3 months or 3 days because of who he was.
I look forward to the weekend. I look forward to our two dates and a very special hockey game with my dad and his wife Saturday night.
