Wife on antidepressants, acting strange!

[SteveLW]

So I broke a rule this morning. Initiated a R talk with her.

I said that every time she talks about staying she says it makes her sad, but whenever she talks about leaving she is excited and happy. She agreed.

I then said "I think that's your answer."

I know you are all thinking, "WHAT ARE YOU SAYING?!" LOL

Well every time she detects I am pushing her to leave she starts saying all of the reasons she should stay. And even that she wants to stay.

Her response was: "Things are starting to balance out. When I think about staying it doesn't seem so sad. And when I thinking of leaving it doesn't feel so happy."

I kind of blew that off. "Believe nothing she says and only 1/2 of what she does."

I responded with a "Yeah but staying is still framed in terms of level of sadness, and leaving in terms of level of happiness."

I left it at that.

Back to detachment.