As we were standing in the kitchen, he hesitated and then asked what he should do if he was in the mood for sex. I know what you're all thinking, but I would rather him come to me for that than go elsewhere. I am able compartmentalize it right now.
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I hear you on that one. I'm in the same boat. I'd rather he be sleeping with me than someone else. Does it sting a little that he says "do you want to have meaningless sex?"... it does. But, I have needs too. It has to be a two way street. If I want sex he is going to have put out as well - and he simply said that he doesn't have sex with me I will go looking elsewhere. Sex isn't going to fix our broken marriage and I don't want him to see me just as a tool so its a fine line to walk.
