Not sure what to do. . .can anyone help?

[mbe76]

I honestly don't know- I am between a rock and a hard place, she can't have her cake and eat it, and although she has said she is no longer contacting the OM, I don't believe her.

She has got some valid points about my behaviour- but, she takes no responsibility in all of this- and blames me for everything- she chose to cross the line and have an affair- and although she says she hasn't physically seen him for weeks- she has been carrying on the EA by texting etc.

In terms of GAL it is really tough, as when I come home from work, I am doing what I can in terms of cleaning the children's mess up/ dinner plates etc. then putting them to bed, I then cook our evening meal (as I have always done) the only thing I can honestly say I am doing for myself is going the Gym and taking time out to go and speak with my priest for moral/ emotional support. I am going to see a Solicitor tomorrow to hopefully gen up on the legal side etc.