the fact I will be filing for divorce ASAP to minimize any potential loss of property, etc.
Have you discussed this with a lawyer? Is there a reason you are pushing so hard for a divorce?
In my opinion, these kinds of affairs are like being gravely ill. There are chemical issues in your W's head related to the feelings of love brought about by OM. Would you divorce her if she were sick? or in a coma?
I dont mean to imply that she is blameless here. Or that she is acting outside of her free will. Im asking that you consider what marriage as an institution means to you. What does divorce gain for you? Are there other ways to achieve the security financially that you need?
Have you read DR? How much have you considered the pitfalls of divorce?
