Originally Posted By: joejoe1
Mtb,

Stop trying to figure out what she is thinking and do whats best for you.


You are absolutely right about this, and it's something I need to work on. Gotta get her out of my head. I've made progress in the past couple of weeks with detaching, but I still have a long way to go. Thanks. I needed to hear that...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...