Holding, we were separated all of last year, and during the support conference, I was asked how I planned to file, to which I replied "married filing singly", so I'm pretty sure it's not community property.
FC an J9, I like the idea of splitting the difference between what I would get myself and what we would get together proportionally. I'll propose something along those lines. At this point, if she is difficult, I'll just take my refund and be happy with it.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17