Let him handle his puppy, stop doing things for him! Send him a few messages with the puppy's schedule...keep the answers for your lawyer.

Since you H is a spender, try to make a list of his spendings versus what he contributes to the community, just to have a idea in case...


Me 52+ WH 57+
Married 20 +
Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)