Steve,
I'm hoping your sitch gets better, and wish I had advice to give. But as you know, I'm lost in my own sitch...

I'll be thinking and praying for you, buddy...

Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...