Newbie In Need Of Guidance #2

[rminer]

What we need to do is figure out where to go from this point.

Yes, I agree that this is needed. What I am doing does not seem to be working.

I see three options:

1. You forget about the EA/OM and act as if you have had an awakening. You focus on becoming a better man, H, and father.
2. You confront her about the EA/OM and lay down a boundary that you won't stay in a MR with three people.
3. You do nothing, and see how it turns out.

Only the first two are options to me, but from what you and Acc are telling me, Option two probably won't end well.

I am going to step back and try to look at this a little differently so maybe I can get this figured out.

In the meantime, could you please tell me what you think of the two questions you asked two posts ago? You asked them for a reason that seemed important to me. Depending on your response, it might be a clue as to which way I need to go. I have my own thoughts on them, but your viewpoint would be welcomed.

They were:

Could you tell if she appeared let down when you stopped doing special things for her?

and

Refresh my mind, how did she respond during that time you were showering her with attention?

I appreciate the help.