I really want to say that I am 100% sure there is no OW. In October last year I had put down a deposit for divorce. After the attorney kept saying how hard it was going to be proving fault divorce (inhumane treatment) I started getting cold feet. The attorney also said, every time DH contested, the price was going to go up, I dropped it. I just could not see having the kids and myself homeless or not being able to move forward.
By the end of May, I can file using the aid of my state. However, I was hoping for the best.
Amoafwl
DH does not like the GAL thing at all. If I go anywhere without him, it is a problem. Trying to work out and lose weight has to be to attract others according to him. At first, he tried to convince me that if I wanted to lose weight, it had to be for him. He really does not have a reason to not trust me. Very seldom do I go out. But when I do, it is always with a female friend. I always let him know when, where, and with whom. It is still a problem and he becomes hostile. He says that is being neglectful to the family and not putting the family first.
So come the end of November, he was hostile again because I went out with a female friend to lunch. Even after I left he clowned so much until one of the teens acted just like him. He then called the police and almost got our child in trouble. Because of that, I left with the kids and stayed overnight in a hotel. Now he claims a relative told him, I left the kids at the hotel and went elsewhere.
Because I went to the hotel with the kids, I think that finally gave him the motivation to leave. Now I did tell him I was sick of the hostility and that one of us had to leave. I was at this point willing to go to a shelter.
Another time we wanted to join the gym (kids and I). He did not agree. So I purchased equipment to workout at home. So one morning, I got up early and worked out in our little room we setup. He came in yelling saying how I was enticing anyone who was passing by drivers and walkers.
When at work, he expects me to text throughout the day and expects me to be at home the same time each day.
So yes for three months now, he has been living elsewhere.
Even with that, I still find myself being accused it seems of everything. I am even provoking him.
Me-45,H-56 DD: 18 DS: 15 M:18 T:23 H moved out:11/2017
