It seems as if you both began a relationship with lies. You know that isn't a very good foundation for a relationship. it's hard to trust the other person when they begin with lies, and you both did.
True, that was my only lie. And as far as I can tell, her only one, too.
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Could there be a clean slate start over? Who knows. But you mention HQ came to live by you. So maybe you just need to write this one off as a learning experience.
That bridge was burned down at the end. I mean badly. We both said some very mean things. She slandered me. I told people the truth. She blamed me for her losing everything, including her oldest son (who moved across country with his dad to get away from that drama, and now my son lost his best friend in the process). So, you see, that bridge is destroyed. Lessons learned.
I agree on the way of survival. She came along at just the right time for me. Easy pickings lol
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I would just live by being honest at all times.
That alone taught me the most valuable lesson in a long time.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
