I do realize that. And in the subsequent arguments after our breakup that came out. Turns out there is much more to the story.
I had seen little flags but chose not to pay attention to them. See, she was an incredible woman...and honestly my style (or type). But, there was a darker side. I do believe she suffers from borderline personality disorder and maybe even bipolar. She mentioned that last night that I was so good for her that she stopped taking her meds. I let it go because, well, I loved her. And I believed her.
But yeah, I get it. I also found out that she was married and divorced three times.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.