Maybe telling her that we need to start MC ASAP, not just wait until she has a place. That if she was serious about wanting to work on things she would be willing to start now. If she doesn't agree to this, she just needs to get the rest of her stuff and hand over her house key. That the way things have been going is ridiculous, I don't deserve it, and I respect myself too much to deal with it any longer...
I know her well enough, that I'm pretty sure she'll just take her stuff and tell everyone how her mean husband forced her out of the house. She wants to be the victim in all of this and likes the attention she'll get from it...
I know she needs reality to hit her, but like I said, she is rarely home anyway. So this won't be much of a change for her at all. Just another reason for her to be able to blame it all on me. Then it won't be her fault anymore in her mind. It will have gone from "I'm not happy and want to leave" to "He kicked me out and I have nowhere to go". Then she won't be the bad guy. And she'll be able to get everyone's pity and attention...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
