She may very well move forward with the D. And only you know when you are ready for that potential. But the alternative is to continue in limbo. Personally I made the decision to only remain in limbo for 1 year. If after 1 year she is not 100% committed to the marriage, I ask her to leave and I go file.
Again, only you know when enough is enough, but I personally couldn't tolerate the behavior you are tolerating.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
