Wife on antidepressants, acting strange!

[Holding]

Steve, be careful of trying to justify things to yourself (been there, done that).

When you snoop, you may see details you didn't know. But like you said, you already know where her heart is. The details don't matter, do they?

My snooping may have actually hurt things in my sitch, since what I found out made me angry. That in turn affected my behavior towards my W. I wasn't able to detach "lovingly", and instead did it in a cold way.