Wife on antidepressants, acting strange!

[Holding]

Steve, I went through the compulsion of snooping. I saw things that hurt me. I kept looking and saw more things that hurt. In the end, I was torturing myself, but it took me a while to see that.

I eventually reached a point where I was tired of the self-inflicted pain. I realized I needed to respect myself enough to stop doing it. I went cold turkey, at a time when it would have been the easiest. I constantly told myself I was better than that, and better than the lowly cheater she'd become.

Snooping never feels good. You always feel worse after doing it. There's nothing good that can come from it.

Treat yourself better.