Saying ILY...

[mtb1981]

So last night, W came home at 7:00 to get some of the clothes she washed. The shift she picked up starts at 7:00. While she's there, she tells me she is wanting to quit the bar job and find a job waiting tables during the day, so she has more time to be with the kids. She also said she wants to start MC, but not until she finds a place to move into. WTF??? Tells me she has her bff out in the van and that she is coming to work with her bc she was upset that her grandmother passed away earlier that day and wanted to get out of the house and hang out. She continues to grab a few other things (makeup, hair stuff, more clothes) and then says she has to leave because she is running late. Not sure what to think about any of this, except I don't believe any of it at this point. In a previous post, I had mentioned about her lying about her grandma being in the hospital so she could go out and party all night. Now she claims her friend's grandma passed away while she was grabbing a bunch of stuff like she was going to get ready to go out. Her friend was outside, and I told her I was sorry to hear about her grandma passing and she told me thank you. I've told her before that there is no reason for her to lie to me, that she can do whatever she wants. But it seems like she is saying she has to work when she doesn't just so she can do something else. I can't understand why, because she has told me plenty of other stupid things she's doing and I never say anything or try to stop her bc it's not my business. This behavior is just weird...