Pir! Nice to "see" a fellow finn! I'm sorry you are in this sitch. Please start your own thread. You really need it. Take every little piece of advice you can from here. And check in every chance you get. And most important keep this to yourself. ALL OF IT. Remember this: you're not going to survive this. You're going to fight this! Because you are a warrior! If you want change, you have to change. We can get through this! We will get through this!
And yes. It would be nice to exchange contact info. Too bad we can't.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.