Ok Started reading the You are a bada$$ book. I suggest to stay away from it. While I was reading it...it was like W talking to about her reasons. "I have this feeling so I have to do this in spite of tearing our family apart." The book is based on Law of Attraction. What you feel is the true reality. And if you act on these feelings and going gets tough it is all about The Universe testing you if you REALLY want it. People people! It is a cognitive distorsion! If your both, concious and subconsious, awarenesses are not involved in making the decision...it is a wrong decision.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.